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November 2014



The Secret Club of Haute Couture

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“Paris is always a good idea” – Audrey Hepburn

Paris, the fashion capital of the world, the birthplace of haute couture where the elite of the fashion world congregate twice yearly to view the latest inspirations from the couturiers of high fashion.

BREAKFAST AT TIFFANY'S, Audrey Hepburn, 1961

Audrey Hepburn from Breakfast at Tiffany’s

Today, the term haute couture has been so overused and misused that for some, its simply lost its true meaning and representation. In the past, for an item to be considered haute couture it had to be made in Paris, by a house that met the standard of the Paris Chamber of Commerce (the regulating commission that determines which fashion houses are eligible to be true haute couture houses) and even till today, price is never advertised because if you have to ask then you simply can’t afford it.

Haute couture is a handmade exclusive custom piece of clothing for a specific individual. Today there are many tailoring houses that produce good quality and relatively stylish garments across the world.  Some are new players to the market and their talent and eye cannot be denied but “tailor-made” even for you doesn’t actually qualify a piece of clothing to be haute couture. It really is simply just a bespoke or tailored piece of clothing and should not be confused with the former even if the brand is relatively “known”. There are a finite number of brands recognised by the Chamber in Paris as houses that qualify to have their clothing labelled haute couture. Brands such as Dior and Chanel are part of this exclusive yet limited collection of designers.


Fashion model Katoucha wears a Valentino Haute Couture 

Then understand this, to be part of this “haute couture elite club” money is not enough to grant you access. This club does not rely on celebrities wearing the designers items to make them credible – in fact the inverse is true, if it is overly advertised it becomes highly undesirable to them. To join this elite group, whilst money is an obvious prerequisite, desire to acquire the finest and most expensive clothing money can buy is the finishing caveat. As its often said, money can buy you alot of things but not taste. You must cultivate like a purveyor of fine arts, a desire to understand and appreciate these pieces of clothings as works of art in their own right. Many clients of this world  are often not known, the secret rich as some may say, a world connected by relationships and an allegiance to maintain sartorial elegance for all of their life. This is not a quality that is often evident in the nouveau rich, they are mostly acquainted with forms and methods of displaying wealth and designer labels, but this must not be confused with haute couture taste or representation and belonging.


Chanel show Haute couture shows

You may ask, some of the designs seen on the catwalk are completely unwearable, in fact they often look like artistic constructions that are totally impracticable and who would consider such flamboyance as a tasteful form of wearable expression? You have completely missed the point. The haute couture pieces serve as wearable forms of art. They are the catalyst to the entire fashion industry in terms of the source of inspiration that filters downstream. Take yourself back to the scene in The Devil Wears Prada where Miranda Priestly (editor at high fashion editorial Runway) so unabashedly corrects Andrea’s misunderstanding that her low quality blue cerulean jumper was a choice she made to show her lack of care and disregard to fashion and ultimately a choice she has made for herself. As Miranda succinctly corrects her (paraphrased) “that blue cerulean was first featured in 2002 by Oscar de la Renta in a collection of gowns, it then filtered to Yves Saint Laurent as military jackets, and then quickly to 8 other designers, the department stores and then a clearance bin at some low end store on the high street…” the point being simply, that choice was made for her by the elite of the fashion world, the haute couturiers, and that process of filtration thereby means even the lowest brands at the bottom of the fashion food chain look up to this world for guidance and inspiration on what to create, even if it is a cheap imitation of the original construct of art.


The Devil Wears Prada Movie Scene

The term coined for the diffusion of these brands is called “pret-a-porter” – ready to wear. This is the world of popular and known designer labels that some have confused with haute couture. Brands like Alexander Mcqueen have their diffusion McQ, Donna Karen as DKNY and we could go on. It is this ready to wear that isn’t custom made but produced in larger quantities that help reduce the cost to the consumer and provide access to that “taste of culture and high fashion” so many crave to be a part of. Make no mistake, most haute couture brands with the exception of a few such as Chanel make most of their profit from the masses that indulge in their more affordable pret-a-porter world through clothing, perfume, accessories and anything that features the brand image. From ready to wear you filter to high end department stores on the high street that provide even more affordable imitations of these trends and then right down to high street that reduce the quality of materials even further to make it yet more affordable.


Illustration by Hayden Williams

You will hear some say “I must get my wear out of this outfit…cause I spent xyz on it” possibly a ready to wear or high end department store item when actually within the haute couture world, the inverse is true. It is often not a repeated item of clothing for engagements and one that will usually end up in a museum as a donation (with the advantage of writing it off as a tax loss to the purchaser). It really goes to further epitomise what haute couture means for these elite group of individuals, exclusivity, art and a prime investment. It is worth every penny…or kobo spent and if you cannot understand that, then you cannot enjoy the indulgence and pleasures of the secret club of haute couture.

This is a feature piece delivered for (Autumn 2014/15)   Masterpiece magazine – The art of fine living



November 2014



New Year! New Business?

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As the new year swings round, many will consider it a great opportunity to make a resolution to loose weight, join a gym, stop smoking, start eating healthy, go back to school etc. A growing choice particularly with the climate of how the job market is changing is to start a business. Over the years and with the help of technology, starting a business has become incredibly easy for almost anyone to do. It is this low barrier to entry that often causes people to believe that turning a hobby into a business seems easier than it is. Why not combine your passions and natural interests into a profitable venture people will pay you for? Something you would happily do for free but can get paid for a living to do! Sound too good to be true? Then yes it is not as easy as you may think. Here are a few lessons I have learnt and some of my successful mentors have shared with me over the years that I found invaluable advise.

1. A talented cake maker does not a cake entrepreneur make!

Just because you are naturally gifted at something does not mean you need to commercialise that gift. The skills required to function in that gifting are not the same skills required to run a business. This often happens with creative business owners that focus on how “great the idea” is and not enough on the foundation and “behind the scenes” of how the lights stay on in a functioning business. The boring stuff finance, marketing, dealing with difficult or demanding clientele cannot be underestimated. The best way to explain this is simply the McDonald example. Could you make a better burger than them (most resoundingly – yes you could!) but are you as profitable as they are? What these organisations do is find ways to ensure their systems can run well and the focus is on building and maintaing those systems not actually on making the best burgers ever. Ask yourself if you have all the skills required to start a business in the field you are considering. Could you go develop some of those skills or possibly consider outsourcing them to more capable experts?

2. Who is your market?

This is probably one of the telling signs that shows whether you have done any research into your chosen venture. If you cannot describe your target market in one short sentence,  a few bullet points or find yourself thinking “everyone” is a very valid and positive response therefore guaranteeing your success to as wide a market as possible, then you need to consider possibly doing some more research. The benefit of knowing your market is focus. If you are not focussed you will more easily waste your time, energy and money. E.g.  spending your advertising on a target market uninterested in your product or service.

3. Start at the end

You should map out where you see your business taking you over a period of time knowing that the journey to whatever you will define as success is not overnight. Spotify (a digital music service) is a growing (as of May 2014 has 40 million users) and successful company but guess what? they are still waiting to make a profit and have been in business for over 6 years! and their investors are somewhat ok with that journey as they still maintain their investment support with the expectation of future growth and profit in mind. A practical example of how you can apply this is as follows. If you know you earn a salary of £20k a year and are thinking of going into business full time, this means if the service you provide produces a profitable income of £500pcm per client, you will need an average of 4 clients a month to maintain a similar lifestyle. Now how quickly/easily can you get and retain 4 clients monthly in your chosen field? This is why it may be wise to consider starting your business as a side project first as your clientele builds up. The best route to starting usually depends on your personal situation. If you have dependents you may find you need to be more conservative in your risk taking than if you were younger and/or single with no dependents.

4. There is power in unity

These days, it is rare to get funding for a startup from an angel or venture capitalist without having a co-founder involved. To the investor it reduces their risk and studies have shown your rate of success actually goes up when you partner. It is rare for one person to possess all the skills required to run a business/idea well and you can leverage from experience, skills and even sharing the cost of items. Don’t get caught in the “I brought the idea to the table so I should get more debate” Ideas account for in my opinion 30% of what makes a venture successful, it is the people that execute and bring the vision to life that actually do most of the work. Without getting caught up in the details of this story, the Winklevoss twins brought the idea of a social network to Zuckerburg, but it was Zuckerburg that benefited the most because he did the actual work to bring the social network – Facebook to life. So be wise but be fair if you want to get the best out of a partnership.

5. Count the cost

I once read a book called “The Dip” by Seth Godin and it quickly sums up to this, count the cost before you start the journey. Starting is easy thats why so many people do it. However if you do not plan to or have it in you to go all the way then don’t waste your energy and time because every journey to success will have its “dips”. Similarly know when to quit, know when its not working out and don’t be afraid to change course quickly. You may even discover a better investment of your time is not to start a business but actually increase your value in the work/career space.

6. Failure is part of the process

Not speaking negatively but failure can be one of the most effective modes for human learning. You can’t read everything in a book! If you start a business today and it becomes a success tomorrow one day something will go wrong and the likelihood is because you did not encounter challenges along the way and learn how to adjust and overcome them, you would probably fail, lose and have to start again because there is no substance to your success. You just “got lucky” and don’t actually know or understand what caused your initial success.  This is why a low risk approach to starting can be beneficial to the learning process eg. multi marketing programs, partnerships etc. The process of building a business educates you but also develops you as a person if you are willing to respond to the lessons it can teach. A good example to anchor this concept is Thomas Edison. His story is a great one for why not to give up but it also demonstrates the process of failing continually yet learning till you get it right. He invented the light bulb on his 1001st trial. His response to failure “..I didn’t fail 1000 times, the light bulb was an invention with 1000 steps”

7. Get a mentor

If something is important to you, getting a coach in that area is a great resource to help. I used to think a mentor had to be in the same field to be beneficial but found that to be untrue. If someone has been in business for a period of time successfully, there are usually lots of transferrable concepts that apply to any business they can advise you on. It took me a year to apply an idea a mentor gave me as I thought they couldn’t possibly really understand my business well enough to tell me what areas to focus on. When I did, I saw the results wishing I had listened much earlier on. Of course it helps to have an industry mentor if you can but remember a mentor does not necessarily have to be someone you see physically, they can also be obtained through books you read and online channels of learning.

So in conclusion…

If you decide starting a business is the right fit for you, remember you will be a new entrant into that market and your competitors will not handover their market share or customers willingly. You will either have to find new ones or fight for your market share and work hard. Most definitely harder than you would even at the most demanding of jobs. So maintain your passion and do your homework….and just start already!

All the best on your new venture.

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May has been running one of the leading event companies in London for over 5 years. They specialise in the planning and production of events in the UK and internationally.

Draft article proposal for V2V Insider Magazine 2015